crossing people is a pattern

what is Ferry?

crossing people is when others experience confusion, give reasonable suggestions, let people see hope.

to cross a person is to lend a helping hand to others when they are in trouble.

ferrying people is a pattern, a pattern of tolerance for others, and kindness that asks for nothing in return.

nine times out of ten, everyone has an unforgettable trough in life. instead of haggling over pennies, it is better to be the one who gives help in the snow.

more than ten years ago, a poor college student named Hao Wude, in order to accumulate tuition fees, still sold goods on the street on a snowy winter night.

suddenly, he heard the sound of belly growling and felt for only a small piece of money in his pocket. after struggling and wandering in his heart, he finally plucked up the courage to knock on a door, ready to beg for a meal.

but when a young girl opened the door, he lost his courage, bowed his head and said, "can I have a sip of water?"

the girl saw his fatigue and hunger and brought out a large glass of milk. He drank it unhurriedly and said, "how much should I pay you?"

the girl said softly, "you don't owe me a point. My mother told me that kindness is not for return."

he felt so guilty that he made a deep bow to the girl and said, "Thank you and thank your mother."

Ten years later, a woman was seriously ill, and the local hospital was at a loss. Her family decided to go to a big hospital to see a doctor, so the hospital asked Dr. Hao Wude to treat her.

when he came to the hospital bed, he recognized her at a glance as the one who helped him.

finally, through Dr. Howard's unremitting efforts, she finally overcame the disease.

when the medical bill came over, she dared not open her eyes because it was an amount she might not be able to repay for the rest of her life.

but when she opened her eyes, it was signed by Dr. Howard, and the edge read: a cup of fresh milk is enough to pay for all the medicine.

those who love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed.

once a trivial act of my own will become a lifesaver to help me in the future.

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sometimes, to help others is to help yourself, and to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.

A gift of roses gives a fragrance to the hand. If you cross people, heaven will cross you.

mind-crossing is a kind of spiritual practice

it is said that it is easier to cross one's own heart than one's own.

it is true that the hardest thing to control in a person's life is his own heart.

some people say: once you put it down, you are at ease.

I am so obsessed that I can't let go of my inner shackles. I am in a state of panic all day long. Everything in the world is worry.

to cross the heart is to practice an ordinary mind, to face the training of life calmly, not to be happy with things, not to be sad.

there is a master who wants to choose a man who can inherit his mantle, among which the two apprentices have always been neck and neck.

so the master thought of a way and told them to go out and look for a perfect leaf.

this seemingly casual and easy task can best test a person's state of mind.

A disciple went out looking for a day, but found nothing. He said to the master, "

"I've seen a lot of leaves, but I can't pick out a complete one, either it's too big or it's incomplete."

at this time, another apprentice came in, looking happy and complacent. the leaves he gave to master looked no different from other leaves, and their color, appearance, and shape were not outstanding, let alone perfect.

the empty-handed apprentice smiled and said, "Brother, I can pack a basket of leaves like this. You are just teasing master."

the brother said, "although this leaf is not the most perfect, it is the most perfect leaf I can find."

nothing in the world is perfect, and no two leaves are exactly the same, let alone people.

although nothing is perfect, no one is perfect, but you and I are unique in the world.

everything in the world is determined by the mind. To cultivate the mind is the process of constantly letting go and being bearish.

things have two poles and things have two sides.

May you keep an optimistic attitude and live a colorful life in a dull day.

crossing oneself is a kind of wisdom

in this life, instead of counting on others, it is better to rely on yourself. The most important person in life is yourself.

remember reading such a story:

one day, Su Dongpo worshiped Guanyin with the Zen master and was surprised to see a string of rosary beads in the hands of Guanyin Bodhisattva.

so he asked the Zen master, "people wear rosary beads on their hands to visit the Quan Yin Bodhisattva, so who is the rosary in the hands of the Quan Yin Bodhisattva to worship?"

the Zen master replied, "it's Guanyin."

Su Dongpo asked inexplicably, "Why does Quan Yin Bodhisattva miss himself?"

the Zen master smiled calmly and said, "because the Quan Yin Bodhisattva knows better than us, it is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself."

as the saying goes: relying on mountains will fall, rely on everyone can run, only rely on their own is the most reliable.

people will encounter all kinds of hardships in this life. No one can replace you. If you don't work hard, no one can grow up for you.If you are not brave, no one can be strong for you.

as the ancients said, "everything suffers, but you can only cross it by yourself."

you are the only one who can pull you out of the trough and abyss at any time.

there is a saying: "cultivate one's mind first, cross one's own mind first, cross one's own mind first."

the highest state of being a man is "crossing".

as Master Huikai said, "there are flowers and months in spring, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. If you have nothing to worry about, it is a good time for the world."

, there is a long way to go in life. May you always maintain a pure goodness, build a leisurely heart, and be a happy and comfortable person.